DDD: *hugs* oh god my father finding my stuff was one of my worst nightmares when I was still living at home. I think he might have seen something at one point - certainly he was snooping around on my desktop and said something disparaging to the tune of "i am so disgusted" but I checked later and the most he might have seen was some extremely G-rated slashfic I hadn't even written so. And there's no way he would ever have managed to lock me out of my websites bc I am so much better at computers than him and also never had any compunctions about reading porn on the school computers (i know, TERRIBLE) and basically what I'm saying is OMG POOR YOU and *ALL THE HUGS*.
Maybe depending on what you wrote in the journal you could twist it in such a way so that your mum's ok with it. Idk, like saying it's your way of exorcising your demons or just mention teenage angst that you don't want anyone else to have to deal with so you don't write it out in your own PRIVATE *hint hint* journals... idk, make yourself look grownup and mature and like what you're writing is something she can approve of in some way. Idk how exactly you could do that. But a few months ago (... or, actually, over a year ago, holy shit) I was talking to my father and got to the point of fanfiction and all the time I spend online and I managed to paint it in such a way that he actually didn't disapprove. It's point number 3 in this entry. I don't know whether that will be of any help to you, but it helped me survive my father's Disapproval with my sanity (reasonably :P) intact.
Music sites blocked: what, why??! And could you perhaps get around it by downloading music via torrents instead?
All that aside, I'm glad you had such a lovely birthday! ♥ Wrestling: something that's always sounded like a lot of fun but I've never had occasion to try it. Most of my friends are rather a lot smaller and more delicate than me. ^^;;;
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Maybe depending on what you wrote in the journal you could twist it in such a way so that your mum's ok with it. Idk, like saying it's your way of exorcising your demons or just mention teenage angst that you don't want anyone else to have to deal with so you don't write it out in your own PRIVATE *hint hint* journals... idk, make yourself look grownup and mature and like what you're writing is something she can approve of in some way. Idk how exactly you could do that. But a few months ago (... or, actually, over a year ago, holy shit) I was talking to my father and got to the point of fanfiction and all the time I spend online and I managed to paint it in such a way that he actually didn't disapprove. It's point number 3 in this entry. I don't know whether that will be of any help to you, but it helped me survive my father's Disapproval with my sanity (reasonably :P) intact.
Music sites blocked: what, why??! And could you perhaps get around it by downloading music via torrents instead?
All that aside, I'm glad you had such a lovely birthday! ♥ Wrestling: something that's always sounded like a lot of fun but I've never had occasion to try it. Most of my friends are rather a lot smaller and more delicate than me. ^^;;;
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